Judging is the new cool. No matter how nice we be to everyone, at some point we all tend to judge people around us. “Look at her hair, eww so frizzy!” (not everyone has the time to iron their hair every morning). “S/he looks so down market, look at his/her cheap clothes.” (not everyone has a rich dad). “S/he has glasses.” (yeah, so? that makes him/her an untouchable?) “S/he is a nerd!” (they’re good in academics, so? jealous?) “She has a lot of guy friends. SLUT!!!” (having guy friends makes her a slut? I don’t see how).
We all have friends who judge people and think they are the coolest. It’s better to leave them. They might start judging you too, someday. I’ve been judged a lot of times, it was because i was obese (i lost a little weight now 😛 ). I had nicknames like “Potato” “Fatty” (Friends still call me that sometimes 😛 ). Now, people who get judged have three choices
i.) Continue getting offended when someone comments on your appearance or whatever.
ii.) Look at it in a different way, smile or say something when people tell anything. That would make them shut up.
Choice (ii) sounds fun. Back answering is always fun 😀 but keep it in a limit, if it gets too much stop answering start ignoring. But don’t get offended that will encourage people and NEVER CRY, never in front of people who hurt you it makes them feel that they matter to you or they make any difference in your life.
Haters will hate. People who hurt will always hurt. They don’t deserve you, your attention or your emotions. Be proud of who you are, and not ashamed of how someone else sees you. Always remember this:
“There are so many people out there who will tell you that you can’t. What you’ve got to do is turn around and say Watch Me“
That’s pretty much it. All i would say is not everyone can be perfect but being the only one of a kind is Perfect.
Stay awesome. Stay smexy 😉